Cake and Compliments


Yesterday, I spent a wonderful afternoon with one of my sisters, who had spoiled and pampered me with a Virgin experience birthday gift.

We enjoyed a lovely champagne tea in the glamorous surroundings of a luxurious 5-star hotel and whilst we spent this precious “sister-time” together, she complimented me on how I looked and expressed appreciation for the way I’d taken care of our dear mother. As I thanked her, she made no bones about the fact that she felt I’d deserved her generous gift.

Whilst chatting, my dear sister revealed she had been reading my blogs. She was full of praise and admiration and her words were like music to my praise-starved soul. In fact some of the things she said were as if God himself were speaking to me and encouraging me.

My sister’s praise and compliments coincided with that of further positive and affirming comments received privately from someone whom I’ve come to view as a blogger friend (as opposed to a fellow-blogger).

These two experiences that came from least expected quarters, that came uninitiated, showed me how important it is to encourage one another.

The world revels in putting the boot in, pulling others down, operating out of envy. I’m sorry to say that the Body of Christ can be guilty of the same thing. Most of us are guilty of back-biting, criticising and judging others. And some are even guilty of belittling or snubbing fellow-believers. The Kingdom of God operates on another (higher) level. Are you occupying that higher ground? Are you an encourager?

The Word of God tells us that we are to encourage one another while it is still “today” (see Hebrews 3:13). And who amongst us does not desire appreciation… does not need encouragement?

May I challenge you dear reader? Find someone today and encourage them with your appreciation and sincere compliments (not false flattery!). Make it a habit to encourage others if not daily, then regularly. Your words just might motivate someone who sees themselves as a victim today, to shrug off their chains of captivity and stride forward as a victor tomorrow.

If you are a blogger, why not encourage another fellow-blogger? It’s nice to leave likes, but put yourself out—make the effort, make someone’s day and encourage them by leaving a meaningful comment. And don’t just visit your friends and favourite bloggers, Search out someone new, or check out one of your unknown followers.

Dear reader, whilst out trudging the highways of cyberspace sowing your seeds of love, have a blessed day!

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Has this post inspired you? Has it motivated you to act? Share your response in the comment box below. I’d love to hear from you.


CREDIT: the above CC0 image comes courtesy of Alexandr Kurilchik at


8 thoughts on “Cake and Compliments

    1. Hello dear blogger, so lovely of you to stop by. Thank you so much for reading and leaving me your comment.

      Oh I absolutely believe that praise is vital. We live in a world where people are too ready with the put-downs and some people think this is a sign of wit. I know this because I used to be one of them!

      Just think about how good genuine praise makes you feel. Positive, loved, etcetera. We should regularly sow some positive seeds in the lives of others, so that we can reap a harvest in our own. 😃


  1. Say no more. I got the msg. This hit home. Not that i am not an encouraging and supportive person but because i give out on a daily bases but lack the same support, kindness and encouraging words from the people around me. Today, i will go and spend a Sunday with my two sisters. I need to feel close to family. Thank you🌷

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    1. I am so glad it has inspired you to spend time with your loved ones. I know what you mean about giving out and not receivi-ng the same support. Enjoy your day with your sisters.
      Thank you so much for reading and responding to my post. I do appreciate it. 😊

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  2. Cynthia

    This is so encouraging and I’m just inspired by this post. Thank you. I agree – bloggers should encourage one another because everyone has something to give.
    This is a very special site and when I read your message I felt encouraged and blessed. Thank you.

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  3. What a brilliant article with a deliciously enticing headline!

    I must say your words moved me deeply. As you say, we all love to be appreciated but seldom do we invest in appreciating others.

    As Christians we should ascend to that higher level and pull up others indeed.

    Thank you so much for this call to repentance. I pray many of us truly turn around and appreciate those around us, while it is still day.

    Thanks again


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