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Is anybody there?
Forgive me dear reader, if the title of this post has somewhat misled you. I am not seeking to communicate with the dead. Far from it! The person with whom I regularly seek to make contact, is very much alive! I refer to the Ever-Living God, my Heavenly Father.
So, (I hear you ask), now you’ve got my attention, what’s this post really about? I’m so glad you asked! Allow me to explain. I am wanting to tackle the thorny issue of unanswered prayer.
Now, if you have walked with God for any length of time, if you have engaged in the spiritual discipline of prayer for any length of time, if you have compared your results with that which Jesus or his disciples enjoyed, you could be forgiven for wondering sometimes, is there anybody there…? Meaning, is God there? Is he hearing my prayer? Why won’t he grant me the desired result and do so within my expected timeframe?
I get that! I’ve been there, worn the t-shirt. I’ve prayed for my healing and the healing of others, yet more often than not, it would seem that my requests have fallen on deaf ears. I know God heals. I’ve experienced his miraculous answers to prayer in that regard. And yet… I cannot help but wonder sometimes: Is anybody there?
Over the years, prayers for family members, prayers for a miraculous turnaround in their mental or physical health, prayers for on ongoing situation of injustice, just have not reaped the desired results. So I can understand why some people would feel discouraged, or don’t persist in prayer. Nobody wants to feel like they are wasting their time, or feel that their efforts have failed. Again. And again. And again.
And saying that God does things according to his own will and according to his own timetable, can sometimes feel like a ‘cop out’ (to me anyway!). It just does not seem a good enough reason for the frequent failure to obtain desired results, particularly when balanced against the many promises in the Bible and against the triumphant results of Jesus’ disciples.
Here’s a record of some of my unanswered, or failed prayers:
- Healing for my mother, a strong, committed Christian and prayer warrior, who suffered from Alzheimer’s disease
- Healing for a husband of someone I did not know and had never met but whose tragic story, stirred compassion within my heart
- Healing for a kind-hearted brother-in-law
- Healing for a much-loved sister, who passed away unexpectedly last year
- Healing for myself regarding problems with my eyes
- Healing for a niece, who has been in and out of hospital for the past five years and who sadly died last month.
All except myself have died, contrary to my prayer requests for God’s miraculous intervention!
As I write this, my mind turns to Job, an amazing figure of patience and virtue. He had seven sons and three daughters, for whom he’d regularly offer sacrifices, presumably standing proxy before God on their behalf, seeking mercy, forgiveness and divine protection (see Job 1:1-5). Yet they were wiped off the face of the earth, in one fell swoop!
How on earth does one cope with such loss and tragedy? Did Job question God’s integrity? Did Job lose faith in the power of prayer? Did he abandon his duty to pray for others, as directed by God? No! No, he did not. At the close of Job’s story we read:
And the Lord restored Job’s losses when he prayed for his friends.
(Job 42:10)
Now, if Job, who lost all his children, his wealth, his means of livelihood and his health, can keep trusting God, continue obeying his directions to pray for others, then so can I. After all, as the apostle Paul points out, events recorded in the Bible have been written as our examples of how to be, or how not to be!
Now, another great example of an unanswered prayer request is that of King David, who prayed for his first-born child with Bathsheba, when it had become ill. The child did not recover. God did not respond to David’s prayer, or to his fast. And so the child died. Can there be anything more heartbreaking than the death of an innocent little baby? Yet David didn’t sulk, didn’t hold secret resentment in his heart towards God. Amazingly, like Job, he responded to this tragedy with praise and worship (see Job 1:20 and 2 Samuel 12:15-20)
Dear reader, perhaps you can relate to the above. Perhaps you have lost faith in God because He failed to perform according to your demands. Perhaps you have lost loved ones and feel hurt or confused that this almighty, miracle-working God did not come to their rescue in the way you expected. If that is so, may I encourage you dear one, not to lose heart, and not to abandon your faith? May I encourage you to not lose hope?
But if we hope for what we do not see, we eagerly wait for it with perseverence.
Likewise the Spirit also helps in our weaknesses. For we do not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.
(Romans 8:25-26 New King James Version)
As for myself? I choose to trust God. I choose to continue to pray. I choose to maintain hope!
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Prayer Focus:
Let us pray this month for ourselves and for our brothers and sisters in Christ that we will remain diligent and hopeful in prayer. Let us particularly remember those who have lost confidence in God and abandoned their prayer lives.
PS: Dear reader, if you are to walk victoriously in life, remain resolute in your faith, and stand firm on the battlefield of prayer, you need to be wearing your spiritual armour daily!
PRAYER:
Heavenly Father,
We approach your throne of grace today in humility. We understand that you do all things after the counsel of your own will. We appreciate that your ways are so much higher than our ways, your thoughts higher than our thoughts. We acknowledge and affirm that you are omniscient (all seeing), you are omnipresent (present everywhere), and you are omnipotent (all-powerful). We acknowledge and declare that you are indeed God, and as the one who created humankind, as the one who created heaven and earth and all they contain, there is nothing too difficult, nothing impossible for you to do.
Lord Jesus, we note from your Sermon on the mount, and acknowledge that we are expected to pray. We further note your concern about whether, upon your return to the earth, you will find those who are persistent in prayer and in their faith (Luke 18:8).
Lord God, we ask your forgiveness for our attitudes of faithlessness. Forgive us for the times we may have questioned the integrity of your Word, or the authenticity of your power, or the reliability of your love and goodness. Forgive us for the times we’ve responded to the natural evidence of our eyes and ears, and responded to our feelings and fears, which are contrary to your promises, and contrary to a position of faith.
Holy Spirit, help us going forward to trust in God with all of our hearts and to not lean (as is our inclination), upon our own understanding. Help us to be diligent in prayer, regardless of the results. And should occasion demand, help us to emulate Job and King David, during those times when the results we expect, are not forthcoming.
We ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen.
© Carol Hind
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